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“I don’t understand men’s feelings…” What are the characteristics of men that women should know?

「男心がわからない・・」女性が知っておくべき男性の性質とは英語記事
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ゆず子

“What the hell is a man thinking?”

“Why are men so stupid?”

 

From a woman’s point of view, I think men often seem strange. There are certainly many things you don’t understand.

I will answer these questions.

“I don’t understand men’s feelings …” What is the nature of men that women should know?

 

I don’t understand the feelings of a man, why I feel it’s a mystery

 

In this article, I will talk about the “man’s heart” that such a woman sends to you.

■Summary of this article
  • What is a man’s heart
    Man’s behavior and thought process
    5 characteristics of a man’s heart
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What is a man’s heart?

男心を理解する

I think it’s easier to understand if you think of men and women as separate life forms. Men and women are so different.

I feel frustrated because I think “I can understand each other …”.

One of the factors that make it difficult to understand men’s hearts is probably because they don’t understand men’s values and instincts.

Here’s a rundown of what’s different:

 

A man’s heart is from weakness and pride

夢を叶える 希望を持つ

Men want to show themselves strong, so they don’t really like to complain about others.

This is because having a weak voice means losing yourself, so you have pride.

 

The fixed concept and common sense that “a man should be strong!”

As a result, the number of men committing suicide each year is more than twice as high as that of women, as statistics show that they end up shouldering their troubles alone.

Because of the pride of not showing weakness, men have a side that makes it difficult to talk to people.

 

A man’s heart and the autumn sky

Men’s feelings for the women they like change easily, so there is a proverb called ‘man’s heart and autumn sky’.

In fact, I think it’s true that men tend to be more moody than women.

If you think about the downtown area, there are many shops targeting male customers as places to go out at night.

Not all men go there, but I think it’s true that it’s possible because there are a lot of people who use it.

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Man’s behavior and thought process

In terms of specific actions, let’s summarize the thoughts and actions peculiar to men.

It doesn’t apply to all men, but I tried to hold down the common points in general.

 

You can focus on one thing and be absorbed in it

最高の人生へ

It is a man’s heart to be able to concentrate on one point and work on it when you find something you like.

as part of a concrete example

You can focus on one game while blocking other things
You can immerse yourself in anime like an otaku
make a world of your own

It’s an advantage to do something, but I think there’s also a disadvantage when you’re in a bad time and you’re thinking about the bad side. Compared to women, I’m not good at distributing my thoughts.

Man’s heart likes machines and gadgets

It is also characteristic of men that they tend to be very picky about machines and gadgets, such as cars, motorcycles, computers, and smartphones.

Have you ever heard a man passionately talk about the functions and performance of a machine that he likes about something that he thinks would be great to use?

Men love to talk about their favorite poops and knowledge.

Men have a side that they want to talk passionately about things they are particular about.

 

Emphasis on strength, power and status

Just as some men boast about their bravery when they are young, it is also characteristic of men to compare themselves to others to see if they are stronger or weaker.

Some men don’t seek strength, but he has a masculine heart that he admires. I like fighting manga because I’m a man.

When you grow up, you shift from strength to economic aspects, whether you can work, and whether you are popular with women.

As I wrote earlier, it’s a little bit like pride, but when a man feels a complex about what he values, he feels a sense of defeat.

If a woman’s justice is cute, I think that the strength of a man’s heart is justice that he cherishes.

 

Love and cheating are two different things

真似るが勝ち

Regarding “cheating”, which is the biggest concern of men’s hearts, men love to talk and play with women. If you blow away the ethical concept, a man can play with multiple women without hesitation.

 

He has a similar instinct to chasing anything that moves in front of him. Don’t do it with a cat, it’s rude, and the cat might get angry. However, whether or not you will like it just because you played it is another matter.

Then, the reason why married men don’t cheat is their sense of responsibility towards the family.

The difference is that he doesn’t cheat because he doesn’t have a reason to cheat, and that he wants to but it’s morally wrong.

I think this part depends on the person.

While men are good at thinking about one thing, there is also a mysterious side of him that can separate things when it comes to playing with girls.

 

I’m not good at saying “I’m sorry”

悩みを解決する

Men are not very good at expressing their emotions. I think there are surprisingly many people who can’t say sorry.

There are more men than women who are taciturn.

Depending on the age, some people think that “silence is golden”, and it may be the influence of being educated that men should not talk silly.

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summary

What did you think of this article about masculinity?

I think there were some things that didn’t apply to me, but I tried to summarize what I’ve always wondered for over 30 years that men and women are completely different. Men, on the other hand, have a lot of mysteries about women.

I would be happy if it would be an opportunity to understand each other instead of denying each other’s differences.

I would be happy if you could refer to it even a little.

Thank you for reading to the end.

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