Some of my friends at school also lie.
Some people even lie at work!
What are the characteristics of people who are comfortable telling lies? How can you tell them apart?
I will answer those questions.
What are the characteristics of people who lie, and why do they lie?
Of course, there are various reasons behind this, but for some people, lying may have become a daily occurrence.
“I fell for that lie and suffered a terrible loss!”
Some people may have had this experience.
Therefore, in this article, we will introduce the characteristics of “people who lie” and how to tell them apart.
- Characteristics and psychology of people who lie without hesitation
- People who tell lies without hesitation always want to be recognized
- People who lie without hesitation always want someone to notice them.
- People who lie without hesitation want to escape reality rather than make an effort.
- People who lie without hesitation lack self-confidence
- People who are comfortable telling lies are quick-witted.
- How can you spot a lie?
- How to deal effectively with people who lie
Characteristics and psychology of people who lie without hesitation
Let’s take a quick look.
People who tell lies without hesitation always want to be recognized
If you fall into this category, you are actually not that inferior.
In fact, for some reason, many of them are honor students, hard workers, hard workers, studious, and knowledgeable.
As a result, they are well-liked by those around them, are trusted at work, and are relied upon in the workplace.
Why not when you can trust him and get the job done? You might think so, but
There are many cases where people start lying when their desire to be recognized is abnormally strong.
Even if they are fully recognized by those around them, their desire exceeds that, so it can be said that there is no ceiling.
In most cases, lies are easily discovered, but since the person is popular and has a track record,
Even if you lie, people around you won’t notice.
Because the people around me nod and think that that person must be like that.
The person himself will not stop telling lies.
People who lie without hesitation always want someone to notice them.
Everyone has a desire to be the center of attention, but even small changes in themselves are important.
This can be seen when there is no one around who always pays attention to you.
For example, if a woman has cute nails but no one talks to her,
The next day, they put a bandage on her finger.
This is an extreme example, but if the desire to be noticed is not satisfied,
No matter what means you use, you can make them turn towards you.
It is said that people tend to lie when they can’t stand the fact that other people don’t see them that way.
People who lie without hesitation want to escape reality rather than make an effort.
Usually, if you think “this is what you want to be”, you put effort into it.
And by continuing to make efforts without giving up, we will produce results and achieve our goals and objectives.
However, there are some people who are basically unable to make this effort and always want to find shortcuts.
As I mentioned earlier, even if you make an effort and get results, your desires are not satisfied.
This is the exact opposite of a liar.
Success cannot be easily achieved through shortcuts, so most people end up trying hard but not succeeding.
In other words, I only have some basic knowledge.
So, this is what triggers the lie.
Of course, there is no problem if you just want to escape reality,
It becomes a lie when you bring to the real world the self that has been blown up to the level of a hero in the fantasy world.
People who lie without hesitation lack self-confidence
All humans lie.
There are many different types of lies, such as good lies, bad lies, and easy lies.
There is hardly anyone who has never lied in their life.
Among those who are not confident in themselves, they try to make themselves bigger than others,
Tends to lie.
Tormented by a sense of inferiority, feeling inferior to others, unable to accept the truth,
Naturally, we often lie.
In terms of small things, it’s the so-called know-it-all, pretending to know something even though you don’t.
When it comes to big things, he lies about his background and age.
People who are comfortable telling lies are quick-witted.
People who are often told that they lie are simply bad at lying.
Some people tell lies that can’t be found out.
Be able to answer questions immediately as if you had prepared the answer in advance.
The structure of the story is good and makes sense.
Sometimes you get the feeling that it’s too good to be true.
At this time, his mind is running at full speed to make sure the lie is not discovered.
People with quick minds are better at lying,
They may even resort to fraud that deceives people.
How can you spot a lie?
If possible, we don’t want to get caught up in a lie, but is it possible to tell a liar by their appearance? People who lie often don’t make eye contact with the person they’re talking to. This trait is especially evident when people feel guilty about lying. However, if you feel no guilt at all about lying, or if you are always lying and have no conscious or malicious intent, it may be difficult to judge by looking at someone.
Looking diagonally upward to the right while speaking is said to be a characteristic of liars. This is due to the structure of the brain, and the right hemisphere is involved in artistic images such as imagination and sensation. When your gaze is directed diagonally to the upper right, it means that you are composing a story based on your imagination of something that has not happened. In other words, it means that you are lying (thinking).
How to deal effectively with people who lie
Here’s what you need to know about how to successfully deal with people who lie. Here we will introduce some ways to get along. You don’t want to feel stressed out by the other person’s lies.
1. Lightly parry
2. Ask multiple people about important things
3. Listen half-heartedly
4. Lightly parry
If you know it’s a lie, or if the lie is minor and not particularly important, it’s best to pass it off.
Ask multiple people about important things
It’s okay if you just lie to show off in a chat, etc.
If it’s an important story, don’t just listen to it alone, but listen to it with more than one person.
Be careful not to make important decisions based on lies.
It is dangerous to accept everything a liar says at face value.
You may be reluctant to listen to what the other person has to say if you doubt them from the beginning, but if you are someone who is constantly lying, it is better to listen only with half the story.。
There is no one who has never lied,
It’s a different story when it comes to lying.
You don’t want to be swayed or stressed by a liar’s lies.
Also, people with a habit of lying will gradually lose trust in their surroundings, and in some cases, they may suffer from a sense of guilt. If you have any idea, “Maybe I’m a liar,”
Let’s take this opportunity to review our behavior.
I would be happy if I could be of some help.
Thank you for reading to the end.